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Sunday, March 8, 2026

International Women's Day • Third Sunday of Lent • Ramadan Week 3

The Name They Gave You

Story: Grace, 28, Nairobi

She was named Grace because her mother wanted her to be graceful. Soft. Easy. The kind of woman who didn't take up too much space.

Grace grew up trying to fit the name. She spoke quietly. She apologized often. She made herself small in rooms full of loud men.

At 28, she led a team of forty. But in meetings, she still found herself shrinking. Still heard her mother's voice: "Don't be too much."

One day, her mentor asked her, "Who named you Grace?" "My mother." "And who are you when you name yourself?"

Grace had never considered the question.

Joe Asiba

Today is International Women's Day — a day to honor women who refused the names others gave them. The "too emotional," the "too ambitious," the "too much."

In Scripture, names carried destiny. Abram became Abraham. Jacob became Israel. Simon became Peter. But here's what we miss: those new names didn't erase the old ones. They replaced them. You can't claim your true name until you release the false one.

Scripture: Isaiah 62:2 — "You will be called by a new name that the mouth of the Lord will bestow."

The Demand

Write down one label you've been carrying — something others named you. "The responsible one." "The disappointment." "The one who's too much." Now cross it out. Literally. Draw a line through it. Beneath it, write: "This was never my name."

What Happens When You Do This

You begin the work of renaming. Not a one-time event, but a practice. Every time the old name surfaces, you'll have a new response: "That was never my name."

Community Prompt

What label have you been wearing that you didn't choose? Share it with someone today. Let them witness you crossing it out.

✙ Prayer for the Day ✙

God who renames — speak my true name over me. And give me the courage to release the false ones. Amen.

Reflection from The Precious Gift — releasing May 9, 2026

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Contemplation

This Week

The Name Series

The identity we claim

  • Sunday: The Name They Gave You
  • Wednesday: The Name You Hide Behind
  • Friday: The Name You're Becoming
Joe Asiba

From the Teacher

"I don't write these reflections from a place of having arrived. I write them from the road — still walking, still shedding."

Joe Asiba is the author of The Precious Gift, founder of The Mission House, and host of the podcast "Do you hear the call?"

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Thursday

March 19, 2026

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Wednesday

March 18, 2026

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Tuesday

March 17, 2026

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Monday

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Friday

March 13, 2026

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Wednesday

March 11, 2026

Ramadan Week 3 continues

The Name You Hide Behind

Sunday

March 8, 2026

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Friday

March 6, 2026

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Wednesday

March 4, 2026

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The Table That Costs Something

Sunday

March 1, 2026

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Friday

February 27, 2026

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The Fear You Inherited

Wednesday

February 25, 2026

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The Script You Didn't Write

Sunday

February 22, 2026

Second Sunday of Lent • Ramadan continues

The Weight of Borrowed Expectations

Friday

February 20, 2026

World Day of Social Justice (UN)

The Door You're Holding Shut

Wednesday

February 18, 2026

Ash Wednesday (Christian) • First Day of Ramadan (Islamic)

The Door Marked "Later"

Sunday

February 15, 2026

Maha Shivaratri (Hindu) • Parinirvana Day (Buddhist)

The Door You Keep Walking Past

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